Overview
Flattery involves using excessive or insincere praise to manipulate others into doing what we want. The Bible presents flattery as a tool of deceit used by the wicked to lead people astray from wisdom and righteousness. Unlike genuine encouragement, flattery prioritizes personal gain over truthfulness.
Key Scriptures
"Surely his salvation is near to those who fear him, that his glory may dwell in our land. Mercy and truth have met together; righteousness and peace have kissed each other" (Psalm 85:9-10, ESV).
"With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him" (Proverbs 7:21, NASB).
"A man who flatters his neighbor is spreading a net for his feet" (Proverbs 29:5, ESV).
Application
Guard your heart against both giving and receiving flattery by cultivating honesty in relationships and evaluating praise against Scripture's truth rather than your emotions.